like i said, say you bought a vid-ya game (rep points to the first person that can tell me where that comes from, no repatitive guessing, i.e. 20 guesses in a single post or 20 in a row...) or cd's/dvd's... every ONCE in awhile, very rarely you can say someone stole/you lost your money, if you do this over and over tho, i'm sure she'll get wise... say your girlfriend wanted a pizza or something last time you were over there, like someone else said, just get crafty, it's not that hard, think of something she can't/won't verify....