These are just generalizations so....

If he was maybe a little older and thinking about settling down or not looking to play as much but he wasn't sure if he found someone that he wanted to settle down with, even if just for a short time, you would have a better chance of convincing him you were the one. But it sounds like he is still young, a couple of years out of high school so he is enjoying he freedom and partying and playing around. So you are fighting two fronts, him wanting to be young and free and unchained and convincing him you are worth it. Look at how this life is glamorized in the media today. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it but you turn on the tv and it is all about which celebrity is with who and how quick they find someone else. It is about late night booty calls and notches on the belt. I'm dating several people right now and I am 30 and I am having fun since I just got out of a long term relationship. I hate playing games but if I must I can do it with the best of them.

So if you want him, try a little bit but don't be disappointed if it doesn't work. Step up your game and try to spend time with him but don't come on too strong. Try to see him once a week, twice at the most and try not to make them two days in a row. Don't flood him with calls. Play hard to get but give him just enough to make him want more. Give him some mind blowing sex and then leave every once in a while. Act as though this is just casual and you may make him want it to become something more. It isn't about convincing him that you want him to commit, it is about making him want to be with you and part of that is by acting that isn't what you want.
FakeBoobsRule Reviewed by FakeBoobsRule on . how to get him back so i was reading the ideal partner thread and i realized that i met him and lost him and thats not ok. He was sexy sweet understanding and liked too smoke as much as me. we always had an awsome time when we were together then all of a sudden bam its over because he can't be held down. How the hell can you make a guy who doesn't want to commit ... commit? ---:smokin: Rating: 5