So Incredibly Fucked

[Ifyoulikepinacoladas]

Ok so I am in a really bad place right now with the law/parents and I honestly just need some feedback because I feel like shit and i don't know what to do.
Im 16 and am a junior in high school. I am an extremely good student and am involved in numerous sports/activities.
I started smoking and drinking around last year, and have pretty much been blazing ever since..well anyway, so I got caught this summer by my dad cuz he found this homemade bong and then my mom found a fucking plant i was growing (bad summer)..so my parents sent me to this private drug councilor which i went to for a couple sessions and hated. I told my dad this and he said that if i agreed to stay out of trouble, get good grades and stop doing drugs I wouldnt have to go..so i agreed.
WEll everything was going great(school, friends, family) until about a month ago when I got a PMB with my friend (possession of malt beverage). My parents were really upset (not so much about the drugs but more about the trust) which really is worse to them. So i went to my diversion board and everything was ok..like 10 hours of community service and $150 and it would be off my record..
Fucking today I brought a bottle of wine and my piece and papers to school (something i almost never do), for this weekend cuz i was gonna drink it w my buddy after work. So all is good all day until I am in the locker room changing. I leave my bag in the locker room and go for a run with my ski team. When i come back I am met by the activities director/principal and im thinking oh fuck. Some coach had been walking through the locker room and have found the neck of the wine bottle sticking out and told the office. Well they called my parents and now i am faced as being charged as an adult (a second PMB and possession of marijuana). My parents are crushed and i feel like shit for betraying their trust. plus i got suspeneded for 3 days and i am doing so well in school.
At this point i dont know what to do or think and I really feel like i just need to get out of this fucking town and go somewhere far away. Please if you could just comment on my situation (whether form a legal stance of what will happen or anything) Thanks.

Ifyoulikepinacoladas Reviewed by Ifyoulikepinacoladas on 11-29-2006. So Incredibly Fucked Ok so I am in a really bad place right now with the law/parents and I honestly just need some feedback because I feel like shit and i don't know what to do.:( Im 16 and am a junior in high school. I am an extremely good student and am involved in numerous sports/activities. I started smoking and drinking around last year, and have pretty much been blazing ever since..well anyway, so I got caught this summer by my dad cuz he found this homemade bong and then my mom found a fucking Rating: 5

[TheFatKid]

First off, you made very bad decisions. However, I have sympathy for you, because I know what its like when your parents lose trust in you. Its very emotional for everyone. I really don't have any advice, just that bringing any drug to school is a bad choice, and should never be done.

[Skink]

All I can say is learn from this,,,not to better deceive though...

[Bong30]

You need to play by there rules, then 18 get a Job and get out of there house and smoke all day every day and they cant say shit.....

you have like a year and change till you can tell them your gone.....


tell your perents they are pushing you away.....if they want to know there grand kids...chill the fuck out..... your MOM will be like.....I want to see my grand kids when he gets married.

tell them to lay off or it will never happen, but you dont smoke in the house either, and get good grades....keep it chill for a year.

[slipknotpsycho]

dude, it's not going to be anywhere near as bad as your mind is conjouring up right now... i imagine probation at the worst...

but as far as your parents go what do you really want me to tell you? you just kept screwing up... it's your fault alone, i don't mean to come off as an ass, but there's not really much anyone CAN tell you.... you did the crime do your time (as in with your parents) i say you quit til your 18... period, stop doing any drug, including alcohol and stay clean, maybe you can earn some trust and respect with your parents, back.... offer to even let them drug test you, just so you "can prove to them that you are clean" or you can keep up with doing drugs, getting caught and basicly continously dissapointing your parents...

do you get good ass grades? like A's, B's at the lowest? is your job steady? do you miss days of school for reasons other then actually being just to sick to go? (nasuea isn't a reason to stay out of school, having the flu and a 103 degree tempature coupled with full body aches, and constant vomiting, is) if the answers are yes, yes and no, then atleast you have that on your side, you can use that to show your parents that you were still performing "right" but now you want to quit because you're tired of disappointing them and you don't like feeling that way.

[madeline]

Man, talk about learning the hard way! Until you learn to keep your promises and follow the agreements you make you will continue to have problems. taking shit to school on top of everything else wasn't very smart and shows it doesn't take brains to have common sense.

[slipknotpsycho]

You need to play by there rules, then 18 get a Job and get out of there house and smoke all day every day and they cant say shit.....

you have like a year and change till you can tell them your gone.....


tell your perents they are pushing you away.....if they want to know there grand kids...chill the fuck out..... your MOM will be like.....I want to see my grand kids when he gets married.
tell them to lay off or it will never happen, but you dont smoke in the house either, and get good grades....keep it chill for a year.

that's not right bong, i think your a cool guy, but that's just not right.... he's the one making the repeatitive mistakes, if anything it's the other way around (pushing away)

you don't say your parents are flipping out on you, you just mention the fact that they put you in drug counseling, and even agreed to stop making you go if you agreed to quit, which to me greatly signifies they are doing what's best for you, maybe not in your head, and we all know marijuana is far less harmful then it's made out to be, but they dont' agree obviously, so they are doing what's best for you in their head. and you should be very appreciative that you have parents that damn caring... they just want you to have the best in life, most parents do...

[Bong30]

when you learn the hard way.....you die.


he is just going through some tough times his Parents are just trying to do a good job....

Hang in there

[cygnustaxt]

man, i don't see why people bring drugs and alcohol to school. There's a time and a place for everything. You should have just made arrangements to go by your house after school to pick up the stuff. Was getting fucked up on the weekend really worth running the risk of getting caught and fucking up everything? obviously not.

anyway, it's time to actually learn from your mistakes. Now it's time to straighten up. Do your time and accept your punishment. You're going to have to prove to your parents that they can trust you. Don't bring anything to school that could get you in trouble. Offer to help your parents out whenever they need something. I'd also stay clean for a while if I were you.

[Bong30]

that's not right bong, i think your a cool guy, but that's just not right.... he's the one making the repeatitive mistakes, if anything it's the other way around (pushing away)

you don't say your parents are flipping out on you, you just mention the fact that they put you in drug counseling, and even agreed to stop making you go if you agreed to quit, which to me greatly signifies they are doing what's best for you, maybe not in your head, and we all know marijuana is far less harmful then it's made out to be, but they dont' agree obviously, so they are doing what's best for you in their head. and you should be very appreciative that you have parents that damn caring... they just want you to have the best in life, most parents do...

I was serious..... They are playing there cards, he should play his.....


But not smoke in the house and get good grades...blah blah


If you hate your Parents and never go see them cause they put you in rehab for weed....

Tell them at 18 im gone and you will never see your grand kids and watch the tune change.....