mentioned in first post, but the name of the general potting soil is garden plus all purpose potting soil. the plant that's lagging is actually dieing i believe. that would mean only three made it. not bad i guess, and this is the "get the sh*t right" grow so the next one is probably gonna be super silver haze. the big one actually has the typical "pot stalk" going on now. other than it having its fifth node, i guess that would be a sign it's not a seedling anymore. i can post pics if requested, and thanks guys for all the input so far.