I think if you can pay for it without stealing or lying, and you can keep up your grades, then most well-informed parents will tolerate it but not like it (after all, some of those stereotypes are well-founded). The problem comes in where parents haven't done it and believe the anti-drug advertisements, or where they have done too much of it and become burn-outs in their own lives.

But you've gotten really good advice so far.

I think if you're gonna smoke at home, then getting caught should be a scenario you're pretty comfortable with.