meh, i think my wife expected me to quit smoking at some point... only after a rather nasty fight, and i finally told her that i'm not going to quit, no one and nothing can make me, and if she couldn't accept that, then she couldn't accept me.... did she finally realize i wasn't going to quit... atleast that's the way i remember it.... i think she was more expecting me to quit later on in life tho... just not happening...