Found out Dad smokes, completely shocked

[invoke]

I recently just got in touch with my both my brothers again after 5 years and found out their mom smokes and they've smoked with her. It was kinda wierd knowing, but I'm sure it was more awkward for them the first time.

invoke Reviewed by invoke on 11-27-2006. Found out Dad smokes, completely shocked As the title shows, i found 2 joints in my dads office. This is a complete fucking shock, im shaking right now, im not sure if im happy or wierded out. He is like, super high strung kinda guy, obsessed with his buisness he owns, always telling me never drink or smoke weed. He always checks my eyes and shit when i come home from somewhere to make sure i wasn't smoking. man oh man, im so weirded out right now. how should i approach this? should i pretend it didn't happen? Should i talk to Rating: 5

[B.Basher]

Take those jays for yourself man. He won't be able to ask you about where they went!

[PaRaNoIa]

Take those jays for yourself man. He won't be able to ask you about where they went!

Why would you want to do that?





Dude..

Talk to him, and let him know you smoke.. He can't say shit to you, cause he's a pot smoker himself.

But, double check, that those joints are indeed his. You can now be the one checking his eyes..

[yoda]

Take those jays for yourself man. He won't be able to ask you about where they went!

worst advice

first time smoking with your pops will be weird, but an experience you will never forget

just tell him "hey dad, i found your two joints.....1 for me, 1 for you????!!!?"

[RedLocks]

he is prolly checking your eyes cause he got lifted and lost his bag, thinking ya took it from him, damn stoners always losing shit

[Skink]

I would just take one of his joints and let him think for a while...

[NightProwler]

be like, "dad.. i found your joints. wanna smoke?"

[turm]

oh the memories, i remember being like 8 and finding my dad's stashes around the house, and not knowing what it was i would show my mom (who would get mad at me but only cause she didnt know how to tell me and my brother). This happened for a few years, me and my brother would always come across little baggies of buds here and there and one day in the winter we went to go shovel and there was a big baggie in one of the gloves and my brother pulled it out in front of my dad so they told us then... after that my dad was alot more relaxed about it, we never smoked together at the time but we knew where all the plants were in the bush. it actually wasnt untill a few years ago when me and my dad first smoked together. It was very awkward at first, but now whenever im home or if my parents are visiting me we always blaze, its great.
Alot of people would be surprised by the amount of people that smoke weed or once have. After my dad came clean to me and my brother we soon learnt that nearly all the adult population in our little community were stoners, im sure its the same in alot of other places too.

Either way dont do anything stupid like calling him a hypocrit or anything, just find a way to let him know you know. and then one day when hes stressed as fuck tell him you have a blunt with his name on it.

[getcrunk]

one night when i was home my dad went out the back door for a while. he would do it to smoke a cigarette once in a while so i didnt think anything of it. then he came back inside after a few minutes and i started to smell weed. i went out in my backyard to see if a neighbor was chiefing or something then i turned and looked at my dad and he was blazed. i was like holy shit!

then last night my mom found my light bulb vaporizor in my college apartment and was completely cool with it.

its pretty cool when you know both of your parents are down with pot.

[AlwaysBlazed]

You're 18, time to toke with your dad.

...and yeah my parents are cool with it now just because they've given up stopping me. They know im trying to prove to them I can be responsible about it and keep my grades up.