Could someone help me?

[wayoftheleaf]

Okay I am going to be as honest as I can be with this.

When it comes to breaking up with girls I have no balls what-so-ever.

I don't want to hurt the girls feelings.

Anyway, here is the scenerio.


Around january I met this wonderful girl named Rachel. She was beautiful and sweet. We hit it off and by febuary we were dating. Around august she had to go and we thought we wouldn't see each other again so we cut it off. Now her parents and her moved back and she really wants to start up again where we left off. I love Rachel, she was very special. I need some tips on how to breakup with a girl that is potentialy suicidal and has most of her hopes and dreams resting on you. The girl I met around sept. And she is nice and stuff, but I've just noticed stuff about her. She seems to rest most of her things based on me. It is creepy. I don't know how to break up with her. I want to not only because of Rachel but also because of the wierd factor. But I want to do it in a way where we can still be friends. I don't want her to be crying for days because of it. That would kill me for her to do that. I can't stand hurting other peoples feelings.

So after that...any advice?

wayoftheleaf Reviewed by wayoftheleaf on 11-27-2006. Could someone help me? Okay I am going to be as honest as I can be with this. When it comes to breaking up with girls I have no balls what-so-ever. I don't want to hurt the girls feelings. Anyway, here is the scenerio. Around january I met this wonderful girl named Rachel. She was beautiful and sweet. We hit it off and by febuary we were dating. Around august she had to go and we thought we wouldn't see each other again so we cut it off. Now her parents and her moved back and she really wants to start Rating: 5

[kindprincess]

tell her you're gay...

i don't know sweetie, sometimes girls just have to cry... we get over it. i promise

love, kp

[slipknotpsycho]

Okay I am going to be as honest as I can be with this.

When it comes to breaking up with girls I have no balls what-so-ever.

I don't want to hurt the girls feelings.

wish i could give you some great advice or something, but yeah, i prety much suffer from the same thing.

i can tell you, more than likely (especially because you say she bases everything on you) she's going to cry for days, there is no easy way... but atleast be somewhat of a decent person about it, do it in person... i'm sure it'll hurt more if you do it over the phone, email or through a note in school or something.... be honest with her too... tell her you want to move on, that things aren't working for you... bout all i can say.

[wayoftheleaf]

Tell her im gay? well shell know that im going out with rachel soon enough.. I dont know maybe i should be straightforward about it.

[wayoftheleaf]

Well, she is coming over in 20 minutes. She sleeps through the days and stays up all night. I dont know. She prolly thinks she is coming over because im horny or some shit. This is going to be akward.

[thcbongman]

Don't fall for any siren tricks. Be firm and don't waver.

[kindprincess]

i was just kidding babe...

be honest and direct, do it in person, she'll probably get mad and stomp off in tears. let her. this way she'll believe that SHE left YOU. or at least she may try to make it seem that way. as i said, don't worry; she'll get over it. if she's never had her heart broken, she will eventually, whether it be from you or someone else.

just be straight forward, and wait for the earthquake...

love, kp

[wayoftheleaf]

ok well, im gonna go ill be back after it is over.

[JunkYard]

No advice, leaf...except maybe keep it real. No point in lying. If you're not into her then that's life, right? She'll get over it, and probably sooner than you think, lol!


:smokin:

[wayoftheleaf]

Okay, she couldn't come but she kept asking what i was gonna talk to her about, and billionfold suggested just telling her so here it goes.

Um we broke up. She is pissed at falling in love. She still thinks the world of me, yet hates me at the same time and here i am single again.

Life is wonderful