Howdy Cheeched,

This guy,Chad,is showing all the warning signs of someone that's about to hurt you badly or even kill you. You need to get a restraining order as soon as possible and make arrangements to go somewhere where he can't find you.

You said he's a drug dealer,which means if he can't get to you-it won't take much for him to bribe several guys to come after you and kill you instead or beat and gang-rape you-just to teach you a lesson.

You need to take this situation seriously-you are not capable of standing against him by yourself-you need the law on your side,with a restraining order in place,he'll be at the top of the list of suspects-if you wind up dead..otherwise he could get away with it.

I have a 24 year old daughter,and if some guy was coming after her like this,I'd go to the law first,but if that didn't work-I'd kill him myself,not only to save my daughter-but other women as well. The cops themselves,will tell you-until he actually assaults you they can't do anything unless you have a restraining order in place-even then,the cops may advise you to get some kind of protection-be it a big dog..or a gun.

I hope you heed my advice..I'll pray for you-you're gonna need it.

Have a good one...Torog