Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Skink, I think that's lovely that you persisted and found a good recipient for the bird. It is the thought that counts, and that was tremendously kind that you were so eager to give it to someone who needed it.

I donate food and money year-round to our local food pantry, but in the wintertime, I try to give money so they can buy the things they need most like baby formula and baby food. At this time of year, particularly, shelters and food banks are generally always flush with food. Everyone feels generous at holiday time, from churches to corporations. Pantries' truly needy times are the late spring and summer because that's when they get the fewest donations. If you ever have a food bank or a shelter turn your gesture away, don't take that as a personal affront. Those places operate on very limited budgets and have limited storage and freezer space. Just use that as an opportunity to find out what they truly need--and when--and try giving accordingly. And don't believe everything you hear about shelters and food pantries giving to anyone, including Mercedes-driving folks. Here in our area, they screen for need very carefully, and they have to turn away far more people than they'd like. Certainly there may be clients who occasionally drive up in nice cars, but that's because they were paid-for cars before those people's lives and financial situations hit the skids. Try volunteering at one of those places sometime and you'll see the very real need that exists.

Much love and light to you for having a philanthropic streak, Skink!
I think being in the south you have had a better experience... good Idea on asking what they do need... when people ask for a handout on the street I usually take them to a deli and buy them a meal,,,cash I hesitate...