Step 1ont get married to a bitch your not sure about.Step2ont tell ANYBODY about your grow opperation, matter of fact dont get married if you plan on having a grow opperation.step3:when you dump a bitch anything negative she's ever heard about you will come back to bite you squarly in the ass.Step4:if she did to you what your telling us you was'nt shit to her in the first place.Step5:KILL THE BITCH!!!What she did to you was lower than being some shit i just stepped in.