How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.

[Duke420]

OMG! what a story!

Man, she moved to my neck of the woods =/

You made me think of what i would do if someone came unexpected, thanks for the kick ass warning. I have some work to get my break down time in check. I'll be starting tomorrow!!

peace :stoned:

[MotleyCrueBoy24]

One question. How did your family take it. Did they know about your relationship with the god given plant? Or was this their first news. Did they believe her? If so, did they shun you from the family?

[ericwt]

One question. How did your family take it. Did they know about your relationship with the god given plant? Or was this their first news. Did they believe her? If so, did they shun you from the family?

My mom called me after she talked to my ex. This was a few days after my visit from the local sheriff. So for all practical purposes I was not growing at that time. So I invited her over. She came and I even offered to take a drug test. She of course said that would not be necessary.

I suspect she knows I smoke weed. She also knows that I do not drink. I think the whole incident actually made me and my mom closer. I showed her my ex wife's blog that said things about me that my mom knew were not true.

The truth is without her and my family I would have never made it through that whole mess. I mean it sucks having to kill your plants and loose your grow but the whole divorce matter really devastated me. To be betrayed by your closest friend changes your view of things. The being dry and not being able to smoke was nothing compared to the feelings of betrayal. Then there is the cost of divorce. I almost lost everything financially. I am now just getting back on my feet money wise.

One day soon I hope I can be honest to my mom about weed. I feel it is getting closer. But right now I am okay with her not knowing or asking about it.

[MotleyCrueBoy24]

I am saying nothing about you. But when I am completely independent I will straight out tell my parents that I smoke weed. Knowing my bitch ass mom (who I dearly love and WAS a pothead) she will call the cops. HAHA.

[OzzyOz]

Thanks for all the replies. The whole experience was more surreal and strange than I could ever write about. I had about 4 hours sleep in about 3 days before the shit went down. As anyone who has experienced the frustration of divorce knows, it is no picnic.

To answer a few questions:

I did not go into detail about the fighting as it was not important to the message I was conveying. Regardless, I wanted my marriage to work and I was not the one who gave up. I still love the little bitch. I imagine what set her off was when she made me mad and at that moment I knew it was over. I stated to her that I was going to replace her with a 19 year old girl and I left.

Why did I dump the lights? Remember no one that I knew, except my ex, that I was growing pot. At that point and still I know no one who smokes that I trust. I do not even know anyone to buy pot from right now.

I just hope none of you have to go through what I went through and I was lucky. When I find the 19 year old girl she will smoke pot with me but will never know that I grow pot if and when I do.

I tried to go into the ex'es blog and delete it but she had changed her password. I also tried to call her and calm her down. She would not answer her cell phone.

There would be a thousand ways for me to get revenge on her, but that is not my way. She now lives close to Portland, OR so that is across the country from me. Let someone else deal with her as long as it is not me.

The events happened in June of this year. My divorce was finalized last week.
She has nothing on me know.

Between my stash and early harvest I stayed stoned for about 3 months. Pot helped me keep from going nuts.

If your significant other knows you grow make back up plans now in case your relationship goes to hell. Remember I thought I would be with her forever.

Where would you stash your lights and grow equipment? How long would it take you to disassemble your grow room when you are panicking and stoned? Do you have seeds and stashes all over the house? Are there stems here and there in your house? Where would you hide your green if you new the Man would be knocking at your door?

Plan these things ahead of time. Try to make your relationships work but realize you never really know what someone is going to do if they get real pissed.

I lived through the experience and that is why I am here posting about it. I advise never telling anyone you are in a relationship with about your grow. If they already know about it...Plan now or regret it later. But it is ultimately your decision and it it your freedom that you are playing with.

If this post even keeps one person from having to go to jail then I am glad I went through hell. No one should go to jail for a harmless plant.

ericwt

hmmmm...
yeah
close call
but maybe you should start growin again?
just keep it on the Dl from even anyone you have a relationship with.
i know thats nearly impossible,but just try.

[EbelEyes]

I read this a while back. I see that it popped up again, so I'll leave a few words.

It sounds like your ex wife never even loved you.

You don't go from loving someone to wanting them in prison, and trying to do so. It just doesn't make any sense.

That is so wrong.

But its all over with now.

She's can ruin someone else's life now.

What doesn't kill is only going to make you stronger.

Sorry to hear about all this (your ex-wife, the destruction of your grow op), but there is one thing to remember...

Nothing lasts...

Your good will always turn to bad.

And that bad is only going evolve to good again, that is if it already hasn't.

Stay on your feet, all I can say is that things will be golden for you sometime in the future (if it isn't already). I can't say when it will happen, but it will happen...

[rnichilo]

wow great read, i commend you my friend :rastasmoke:

[VaporDaddy]

OMFG!
Hell hath no fury, like a woman scorned.
You are the luckiest guy ever.

[wont say]

that sucks man! do you have any pics or movies you can get her back with?? its called... revenge and sometimes karma. sorry to hear that happened, you did an awesome job covering it all up though!

[Johnny McPotSmoker]

That's crazy.

But yeah, he couldn't use the pipe as evidence anyway since his warrant (I assume) was for a grow op. Then again, it is the US.