lol my wife's family (well any of it that would even consider her coming, or making a dinner as far as i know) don't live around here, and my family, well pretty much all of it anyways, doesn't give a flying 2 shits about me, much less who i married... my mom usually tries to get me to go to her house for holidays, but if i can i won't, all that ever happens is she gets drunk (usually with other friends) and causes a bunch of uneeded bullshit, starting screaming matches with anyone who will even think twice about going back at her with it.. it's just all around a miserable fucking time and she tries to guilt trip me into coming, buti have no guilt because she's done this to her self..