I fucking hate this shit!!!

[bobbydabud]

i have just had the worst few days of my life
i have gone to school cause im sick but i also am on antidepresants and im just haveing a break down and feel i need to talk to someone but what i really think is that ill be ok after thankgiving break but my mom is so worried about me and thinks im going to quit school. I dont want to quit it just i dont wanna go to school because i really feel sick
What do u guys think i should tell her to make her feel better and to assure her im fine that its just a small break down i i dont want to go to school for a few days
i dont really have to worry about makeup work cause its really easy
what should i do

bobbydabud Reviewed by bobbydabud on 11-21-2006. I fucking hate this shit!!! i have just had the worst few days of my life i have gone to school cause im sick but i also am on antidepresants and im just haveing a break down and feel i need to talk to someone but what i really think is that ill be ok after thankgiving break but my mom is so worried about me and thinks im going to quit school. I dont want to quit it just i dont wanna go to school because i really feel sick What do u guys think i should tell her to make her feel better and to assure her im fine that its Rating: 5

[TallulahGreen]

i have just had the worst few days of my life
i have gone to school cause im sick but i also am on antidepresants and im just haveing a break down and feel i need to talk to someone but what i really think is that ill be ok after thankgiving break but my mom is so worried about me and thinks im going to quit school. I dont want to quit it just i dont wanna go to school because i really feel sick
What do u guys think i should tell her to make her feel better and to assure her im fine that its just a small break down i i dont want to go to school for a few days
i dont really have to worry about makeup work cause its really easy
what should i do

Okay I have been in that exact same situation in high school. I can give you lots of advice..just first please may I ask what grade you are?

[bobbydabud]

well i should be a jounor but im a sphomore

[birdgirl73]

Bobby, hun, when you say "sick," do you mean you're physically ill or sick with depression or both? Sometimes one leads to the other, I know, and it's very easy to feel physically sick when you're depressed.

OK, here's the perspective from a mom. She can certainly tell you're struggling right now and is worried about you. I also think you may be playing the I'm-sick factor to the hilt, along with your break-down talk, in order to hook her into believing it's stay-at-home time. If you're depressed, it's very easy to want to isolate and hole up at home and not do anything, including getting out of bed and going to school. And I'm not at all sure that's necessarily the best thing for depression, although it does ease external stressors. Is there anything going on at school that you're avoiding facing? Tests? Classes? Complicated romantic situations? Tormentors? (Sorry for a standard mom question, but I had to ask.)

Is your Thanksgiving break beginning after today? I hope so for your sake. Talk to your mom and explain that you're just going through a bad spell and need some chill time. Be prepared for her to still insist on school. Moms can't very well endorse truancy. One of the few things, in addition to exercise, that has helped me endure depression when I've had it has been pulling myself up and out of bed and getting on with what I've had to do. It's also the hardest thing to do when you're in the pits. I know. Let us know how things turn out!

[TallulahGreen]

well i should be a jounor but im a sphomore

Yeah, that happend to me around the time I was a Sophomore.

Looking back on it, I would be way more ahead in life if I just dropped out and got my GED and went straight to community college.

Especially considering straight out of High School I went to community college anyway.
Only consider that though if you really think thats what you would do.

My mom gave me the option, but I felt like I would be a BAD person if I did that. Not being a HIGH SCHOOL graduate and just getting a GED and never getting to walk at a graduation.

Whatever though, High School Graduation is BS, especially if you are going onto college.
Does your school have any alternative learning programs? My school had 2, one was a charter school which was cool..and another was called catalyst.

All the kinds who couldn't learn conventionally did these programs and they worked out great for them.

Maybe try looking into others programs like that?

[TallulahGreen]

DOUBLE FUCKING POST.

[bobbydabud]

Bobby, hun, when you say "sick," do you mean you're physically ill or sick with depression or both? Sometimes one leads to the other, I know, and it's very easy to feel physically sick when you're depressed.

OK, here's the perspective from a mom. She can certainly tell you're struggling right now and is worried about you. I also think you may be playing the I'm-sick factor to the hilt, along with your break-down talk, in order to hook her into believing it's stay-at-home time. If you're depressed, it's very easy to want to isolate and hole up at home and not do anything, including getting out of bed and going to school. And I'm not at all sure that's necessarily the best thing for depression, although it does ease external stressors. Is there anything going on at school that you're avoiding facing? Tests? Classes? Complicated romantic situations? Tormentors? (Sorry for a standard mom question, but I had to ask.)


Is your Thanksgiving break beginning after today? I hope so for your sake. Talk to your mom and explain that you're just going through a bad spell and need some chill time. Be prepared for her to still insist on school. Moms can't very well endorse truancy. One of the few things, in addition to exercise, that has helped me endure depression when I've had it has been pulling myself up and out of bed and getting on with what I've had to do. It's also the hardest thing to do when you're in the pits. I know. Let us know how things turn out!

I really do feel sick but i most likelycould go to school if i was just sick
school is really eassy for me so that not really any propmlem
i really think i will be fine after this break. And for some reason my dad still belives in the "DEVIL WEED" stuff i hate it when that happens