to start off i wanna thank all u guys again for your input.
as far as i can see u were right about the pics of the two plants i posted with my first post, they r male. luckily i had 6 plants because 3 of them, i am almost certain are male(2 certain, one semi-certain) , one that i was hoping to use as a motherplant is looking very male'ish, one im certain is a female as she is showing and the last one hasn't shown any signs yet....

i would love to post some more pics right now but i am recharging my camera and new pics will be up soon.