Quote Originally Posted by DannyMan
love and hate are the strongest emotions you can have tied to someone...and both can leave you VERY vulnerable. vulnerable enough to let your mind confuse you. don't let other emotions get too involved; love is a chemical reaction, no need to get all depressed about it. the more emotions you associate with bad love memories, the more negative love will seem to you.

if you feel lust over someone, it is in so many ways, different than love itself.
love is a single emotion, and if you focus solely on it, it is all that you will feel.
the more you concentrate on feeling love, the more love will be flowing in your whereabouts...learn to channel it all the time, and you'll be good.

if you really want someone, get it out to them. the worse than can happen is nothing anyway! and often enough, rejection is the first path to recovery. if you finally learn that the person you love so much doesn't love you back, why waste any more energy on them? if the chemistry doesnt exist, it has nothing to do with you. NOTHING is wrong with you, the flow wasn't there, that's all. sure it is very hard to get over someone, but at least you'll be able to move on, and breathe the fresh air again. out of all the billions of people in this world, don't tell me there was only one. i dont fall for that.

open yourself up to people and trust in love. there is nothing fake about love. with time and experience, you'll learn to notice who really loves, and whos horny as a doggy.

good luck, and much love to ya.

that was a good idea, but i want to love someone but something is holding me back, a few weeks ago, i could say, yes, "i love you" but now its, like, if i said "i love you" there would be some meaning in those words but not as much meaning as the previous times, so my question is, can you love someone and sometimes doubt the love your giving them?