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[wakenbaken]

My girlfriend and i both want to have sex and have tried two different times to no luck. She is a virgin and so am i so were both new to it. Both times we tried i wasnt able to fit it inside of her + it adds to the problem that i dont get a full erection. What should i do cuz its kind of embarasing

wakenbaken Reviewed by wakenbaken on 11-18-2006. Help My girlfriend and i both want to have sex and have tried two different times to no luck. She is a virgin and so am i so were both new to it. Both times we tried i wasnt able to fit it inside of her + it adds to the problem that i dont get a full erection. What should i do cuz its kind of embarasing Rating: 5

[kindprincess]

astroglide babe, you'll do fine

[officerleeroy]

Dude I had the same problem...which is why I'm still a virgin. I haven't had another chance to try so maybe someone else can enlighten you lol.

EDIT: I didn't have the erection problem though...you're on your own with that...

[kiwi]

I'm not to sure how much help I will be to you.....the best thing to do is not to put too much pressure on yourself, some things do take a bit of time and there is nothing wrong with that. Practise makes perfect.... so just relax and spend time exploring each others bodies, then from there just wait to see what happens.:thumbsup:

[BigNugs4U]

Try foreplay. Then once you are both nice and juicy (and you got some woodage), it will be easier to penetrate. Use lube too. Or if you cant get any, if you perform oral sex on her, use lots of saliva, then use saliva on your penis and put some more on her vagina. Listen if she tells you to stop, it can hurt alot that first time, i hear.

[PotHeed420]

have you considered the fact that you might be gay?

[thcbongman]

Finger her first.

Feel around, explore, let it moisten up as much as possible. No reason to feel nervous, remember that. I remember my first time how I couldn't get completely hard because, after all, it's the first time. Just gotta let go and let instincts take over.

[Lucifuge]

have you considered the fact that you might be gay?

What he said.

[Vapedoc]

claim down its just pussy you afraid of some pussy

[rainbow_jo]

wakenbaken, don't put too much pressure on yourselves to do it.
just have fun with each other, have a laugh, be comfortable being naked together.
Just try sitting about and chatting naked, and have fun.

Sex is uncomfortable sometimes!

There are times when my boyfriend can't get inside me, but it's just because you have to have a play around first, and relax.

reassure your girlfriend that you love her, and that what's the rush anyway? you have ages and ages to have sex, just take it slow, it'll get there.

huge hugs xx