your efforts will pay off if you take their advice, i think. i had the same problems. first they accused me of being possesed by satan..then it all went to shit. i moved out, but it didnt work out. i ended up homless and i spent years trying to get back to the point that i had been.
it's difficult not getting your due respect. very frustrating...i know how that goes. at least put together a solid plan that you can live with stability
it may take some time apart for both you and your folks to cool down. thats what happened with me. hope this helps in some small way cheech