Quote Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
what about someone that's not quite 'older' just old enough to be considered a man, crying just about every week about his brother being taken from him... yeah maybe i'm releasing too much info, but i'm actually confused at this point... he's been gone for quite a bit more than a year, and i still find myself in tears atleast weekly...

Aww honey, I'm so sorry for your loss. It's really not been so long and you are still in grief, in pain. Losing a sibling at such a young age is life altering just as losing a parent at a young age is life altering.
It's many years later and I still cry all the time and sometimes it just happens without warning and I find myself in tears. Just suddenly, I'm like" whoa, I'm crying."
I think crying is natures way of helping to purge the hurt. Albeit temporary.