I think i understand what youre saying. That although women get more attention they aren't respected as much as men when it comes to important things. And thats true. Traditionally men have handled the important matters in life. Its just a stereotype that men are better at handling certain situations. Or maybe its a visual thing. Are you short for example? Im not trying to be mean at all im just saying that maybe men are respected more because they are taller and therefore seem tougher and more able to do things. Although thats not saying thats true at all.