Sounds to me like that was a sexist doctor who didn't respect a female patient's request and clearly has two different standards for responding to patients of each gender.

I hope you're looking for another physician. I would be! And I'd make sure and tell his office to tell him why I was tranferring my care, too, when I requested they forward my records to a new doc. Actually, me being me, I'd put that in writing so he'd have it for his files.