Advice?

[crudemood]

Sounds like to me she is afraid to make the first move, but she keeps dropping hints that she wants to. Maybe now that she senses you are catching on she is running scared. Scared of what she calls commitment. A tattoo is commitment to me. People do silly things when they start feeling out of their comfort zone. Be honest with her, be real. That is the only way to find out for sure. Ofcourse, first you have to get in touch with her. Try calling her again, but I wouldn't call again after that. She knows how to reach you if she is still interested.

Great, the exat same thing going through my head. I think I scared her by showing signs of interest too. I appreciate the input. If it was me I couldnt bother with someone elses problems. lol.
Ive been told to be patient and thats exactly what I'm going to do.

crudemood Reviewed by crudemood on 11-15-2006. Advice? So there's this girl I kind of like. We met this year and we hung out alot. She is actually the one who broke the ice between us and asked me to hang out even she knew I was bi. She told me alot of her secrets and even said that she hasnt told anyone else except me and that makes me feel special. Who wouldn't feel special? There are a couple of times she comes home with me twice all the way home like 1.5 hrs away from her house twice only to go home on bus. No one has ever done that Rating: 5

[Oblio]

Sounds like you have a really cool friend...don't mess it up trying to add more to it by your own design. Have fun...hang out...in time if you two become more than that then it is cool.

The comment:
"You know what would really scare me? Commitment."

Could have been made for sevral different reasons.
1st she sensed your desires and was maybe tying to slow things down.
2nd she was just being honest and talking about personal issues with her. She could have wanted you ask why she felt that way.
3nd she wanted to see how you reacted to the comment.

sounds like honesty is a big part of your friendship...just tell her your thoughts