Quick update:

Problem on the 2 leaves is still there. but it hasnt spread.

and on that same plant, i have now 100% determined that its a girl! TWO GIRLS YAYAYAYAYAYAY


im really excited now.

also, the other plant that i said was a little droopy, well over night it started to pick back up...i wonder if plants just sometimes get droopy as the day goes on. like around the 15th or 16th hour of light, maybe it just gets a little tired and droops? anyone know if this is the case? and then over night it rejuivinates itself? let me know.