In all things, GHoST, communication is the only way forward...you should talk to her, I think..at least then, you'll both know where you stand
It's fairer on you, and on her too...there's nothing worse that not knowing that your actions are detrimental to your life...better to know and address them, than think that everything is fine, then BAMM...dumped!..why?

Ya know what I mean?