Well they look like leaf shoots coming out, not balls on sticks like on the male one (now gone) but if they are still male flowers ill get rid of them. They dominate the sideshoots, the main cola is female thank god. but i havent spotted one female flower on the sideshoots, this is what is making me doubt if its a male flower.
like i sed the bud is about 3-4mm have what look to be shoots coming out (no sticks with balls). At the top of the plant there are buds with pistals coming out.
cheers the skiing arab