ok im not gona lie. i hate handjobs from most girls. they hurt. ive had chicks just grab your dong and start crankin, totally dry and it just rubs and hurts im like ow god please stop. only way i can get off is if im wearin sweats or somethin and i lead her hand and she goes over my pants. lubs works too. i know its weird but try to explain what feels good, i guess thats the best bet.