Breaking up with GF of 4 years

[buddymyfriend]

Man up and tell your girlfriend you owe her that atleast!:thumbsup: Seriously think about it, what kind of relationship do you have if you don't trust one another and can't talk to each other? Shit just ain't gonna work without those two ingredients, along with a few more! Sit down and tell her how you're feeling and work out whether you do really wanna be with this 'new bit of skirt' or if you can make it work with your girlfriend. Whatever your decision, make it honestly. Shit can't go wrong if your honest and straight up.

Peace

Buddy

[daima]

what do you guys think....how should i do it...its for another chick........ ok this is the situation

been together 4 years i love her, but this other chick just makes me feel differnt....my girl now doesnt know ive ever done ANYTHING bad lol....drink, smoke, pills, ANYTHING and i do the first one evry weeked middle one daily and last one pretty often too.....but anyway...how should i do it...ive done it 3 times before and crushed her everytime..i dont wanna hurt her....what do you guys think

be honest. period.

dai*ma:stoned:
Remember when you use to call me honey
i'd turn around and call you honey too
well you might think it's a joke but it aint funny
to hurt someone who's so in love with you

[Bong30]

be honest. period.

Best advice right there......

[Genuine17]

I'm gonna make a prediction...

when you break up with her.. your life will take a turn to hard core drugs, and deep introspection after you get down down down into the dumps..

meanwhile your ex will go off to college and get staright A's and shagged by an entire fraternity...

You two will reunite in 4 years.. you will tell her that you found GOD but that you are just really really spiritual.. and she'll think your crazy.. but you two will still get in one last shagging.... I recommend you spend a lot of time eating at the Y.. so that her final memories of you are positive..

to be cont.

iloveyou

rofl

[Garden Knowm]

dude dont do it. i think youre probably just feeling lust for this other girl and if you get into a relationship with her that feeling will go away eventually. please think about it more

the part in bold is true.....disregard the second part of the post..

love is love

[timothylearyisdead]

im in pretty much the exact same boat. i can tell you smoking weed certainly doesnt help with think thinking up excuses. just tell the truth, i think thats what ill do.

[SkatePopwar]

bro bro bro what the fuck are you thinking
dont leave a girl you love for a girl you are attracted more too. your going to regret that and its going to be too late. but i think you really need to tell her about your drug use and stuff, because i used to cover that stuff up too but then i realised its pointless. and its as big of a part of em as anythign else, so if your girl cant accept that then shes nto accepting a part of you. but now that im totally honest with her its so much better, god..love is amazing

[s2headhunter]

yeah guys/girls i really do love her.....but i would just man up but 1 shes really close with my mom and shed probally go into a crying coma and then tell my mom what i told her....IM ALMOST POSITIVE about that.....and i deff dont wont her doing that...if i were for sure she wouldnt tell my mom or something id tell her...and the reason ive hid it i guess she is COMPLETELY like straight edge lol....and when we first met...well she asked me if i did..and back then i dditn often, so i just told her know because i didnt want her to be turned off by that..and i just havent told her ...i dont know ...over the summer i fucked around with this girl i kissed her and shit and told my gf about it....in hopes that she would say it was over lol and i wouldnt have to be the bearer of bad news...but she said lets just forget about it....!!! lol i know she loves me and i know i love her....but i dontknow if its weve just been together so long and i know i love her...or its still really there...because this other girl makes me feel completely differnet.....i dont know ...i might feel out the situation for a bit

[renovator4]

the truth is the truth it doesn't change so be careful of the boom-a-rang effect or duck lol

[SkatePopwar]

lol do you plan on hiding it from her forever?
that must suck, your going to have to tell the truth sometime
jsut tell her..crying or no crying, jsut tell her that you have been smoking bud for a while now, and that you have no wish to stop because its more healthy than alot of other things you could do. maybe present ehr witha few facts. if she really loves you she should accept you for who you are.