Quote Originally Posted by Cheery Cherry
I think you two should've talked about this and really understand where you two are at and where you both want to go in the future. I do think that it's important to take a break if both or one of you are not sure of the future or unclear with feelings for each other because I see you mentioned marriage and most of the time, you don't get to take a "break" without talking about it and being honest with each other if you end up marrying her. Any relationship require constant work for it to last. If you're not sure what she is feeling or where she is going with this "break", I would call her and have an open and honest conversation with her so that you're not sitting around waiting and wondering.

thats what we plan on doing, just not now...i mean i tried that...the whole lets work at it, because weve always worked through anything....but she was just insistent that she needed to get her life figured out without me...so what else can i say? her happiness is more importent than mine if i had to choose

hopefully after a month or so, till winter break, we'll get together and have a chat and maybe her head will be on a little straighter and we can go from there...but i am finding its getting easier day by day....although today sucks because it wouldve been our 3 year anniversary today...booo

thanks for all the words!