What is it that you desire?

I ask this question because it's hard to gauge what you want. You obviously love this girl, but it seems you seemed to invest a lot of energy into this relationship and I get this "I love her, but I'm tired" vibe off you. You seem to do a lot of the little things to make it work.

Meanwhile, find more about yourself. You have become assimilated in a relationship now divided, you have the time to assess your dreams and goals and do anything your heart desires. You have inner pain as energy, use it. Don't let go to waste in wallowing.
thcbongman Reviewed by thcbongman on . break up advice so why i post this here and now i dunno, but i like this place and trust u people...the majority of people here are mature and intelligent and for that i am thankful well basically im 20 in college and my girlfirend of almost 3 years(wouldve been 3 years on saturday) decided she needed to take a break we both go to different schools, but she is a year younger than me and this was her first year of college, while im in my second....we made it through my first year(her senior year in high Rating: 5