so why i post this here and now i dunno, but i like this place and trust u people...the majority of people here are mature and intelligent and for that i am thankful

well basically im 20 in college and my girlfirend of almost 3 years(wouldve been 3 years on saturday) decided she needed to take a break

we both go to different schools, but she is a year younger than me and this was her first year of college, while im in my second....we made it through my first year(her senior year in high school) and now this

basically i knew this would come...we both were/are really in love like legit...at least i am and i trust her when she says the same...but like she never told me why...just that she wasnt happy, was having doubts and just felt it was time....thing is, ive done everything for this girl and not to sound like an ass, but i think i was a helluva boyfriend...i had my moments as we all do, but i was a good find

basically we decided to just quit cold turkey for awhile....no communication at all so as to not make it harder...im thinking maybe in two weeks during thanksgiving break we will meet for lunch or something i dunno....thing is, we were best freinds and if i dont marry this girl i still wanna chat and be cool like i am with all my firends...but itll take time initially...it just sucks, i wanna call her or IM her all the time btu i hold back, and im always thinking about her...cant sleep...and when i do sleep i dream of her and wake up...it sucks

i dunno why i even made this thread...pretty much a rant i guess but if any1 has anything to chime in or advice on what my next move hsould be or was in a similiar situation thatd be great

i know i need to get over her and thisis nexcessary to find out if shes the one, but it sucks badly and it just feels like im never gonna get over it, even though i will


been smoking too much bud recently too and sort of a cope...normally id drink, but i cant seem to drink when im depressed...i have a few beers and just want to die...smoking seems to help though...o ya and valium
Stemis516 Reviewed by Stemis516 on . break up advice so why i post this here and now i dunno, but i like this place and trust u people...the majority of people here are mature and intelligent and for that i am thankful well basically im 20 in college and my girlfirend of almost 3 years(wouldve been 3 years on saturday) decided she needed to take a break we both go to different schools, but she is a year younger than me and this was her first year of college, while im in my second....we made it through my first year(her senior year in high Rating: 5