unless his mother completely turned against him then you probably have yourself to blame. my dad always treated my sister worse than everyone else in my family, though not as bad as she makes it sound, and was still shocked when she said she didnt want to live with him. and here is a tip, though i am not a parent, i would care more about him being a good father than having a good job and a home in the country. in fact my dad had a good job and a nice house when she moved out. hmmmm i guess there are things more important than material

hopefully things get bettter and he forgives you for whatever you did or didnt do, like i said unless his mother completely turned him against you i cant believe he just up and decided to hate you. then again i only read the first post