Cityboygonecountry, i know exactly what you are going through here is the situation.

My ex-stepdad is a compulsive liar. He has never worked an honest day in his life. He lies to the courts and the police and they believe him. He lied to the court system and recieved emergency custody of my sister right before we moved to knoxville. This was his first mistake in 13 years. We are getting back custody of her soon so its all good but this isn't the real story.

He has fed my sister lies about my mother all her life. And she has finally seen him for what he truly is. Eventually your son will realize it for what it is and see what his mother is doing and he will despise her for it. If not despise her he will atleast give up hope for her and go back and live with you. Of course a lot of people can't stand living in the country. I love to live outside of a big giant town in the country. Where it is a beautiful open field or such but i can still go to town when i wish.