Quote Originally Posted by CityBoyGoneCountry
I didn't leave him. He left me.

When he was younger, and before I left California, I went to court and I won legal custody. I was a single father. I did not make her pay one damn penny of child support in the 3 years he was living with me.

Then the opportunity came for me to take my shot at the American Dream. I had to move. How could I not? I wanted my son to come with me. I told him I was not happy in California, and by moving we could have a much better life.

He chose to go live with his mother. There's nothing I can do about that.
i understand that, and you understand that but the question is does he? i mean have you ever talked to him about how he feels that his mom and dad are apart? maybe he does feel like you walked out on her... just trying to help you where my dad failed...