ummm... that sucks that your son dosent want to live with you, and the ex is making you pay child saport or what ever it is that you call it.... i grew up with a EVERY OTHER weekend dad... some times it was fun, we always got along... and then i moved in with him, and it went fine for a few months, and he liked my GF, and he was alowing her to come over, and then one day, i asked if she could come down and vist with me, since i only had to go to one class a day, and he just started saying no... everytime i asked... even during summer break, i asked if she could come down. and he just kept saying no, so i started to get tired of him saying... so we ended up getting in fights everyother day, he ended up telling me not to come back to his house, and had me thrown in juevy, and he called me once while i was in juevey, just to acuse me of stealing a gun from him, that he ended up finding about the next day, and he didnt even call me, and say he was sorry....we havent talked at all in 2 months