Well it sounds to me like this chicks dad doesn't like pot, at all, and approves alcohol because it has been accepted in society. Sad world ain;t it. It's "okay" to get pissed drunk and cause fights, but when it comes to pot, it is the worst thing in the world. Bullshit, I know.

There really isn't much you can do to change the minds of those brainwashed. I to have been a victim of this when I visited my buddies family out in this two bit hick town. They drank beer all day, smoked a pack of ciggs. a day, and drove drunk, but when I pulled out a joint to smoke, I was labeled a drug addict by them.

Once they have been told something and start to believe it, there is no changing their minds, I hate to say. They have been told and have had their minds filled with mindless propaganda. They are stubborn people who trust their government and what they tell them.

I don't really know what to tell you other than trying to explain to your friend the harmlessness behind cannabis, and tell her the dangers of alcohol and tobacco. Just inform her and try to talk sense into her.

As for that drunk father who left his family years ago, fuck him and his bullshit, and punch him in the nose next time to knock some sense into him.