Believe me, so am I.

However I try to shed the typical notion of what a nice guy is suppose to be, think outside the box a little and see things how they really are the best you can. You can't expect to suddenly to have your perfect dream woman fall upon your lap. We all have to go through trials and tribulation to find that companion each one of us desires. It's not a question of confidence, it's not a question of doing something over-the-top to impress a girl. Be yourself and talk to one and see what happens. Yea, easier said than done, but a couple of rejections and you'll harden like stone, why bother with someone that rejected you?