Making a girl friend into a girlfriend (wow that was clever)

[IllusionalFate]

If you want her, then go for it. I have to disagree with the people saying just stay friends and nothing more, because if you really like her you shouldn't settle for that to keep a friendship. If you two are good friends then you will probably stay friends whether or not you get involved in a relationship with her, so it shouldn't be a concern.

If there can be something more between you and her, then don't let that go to waste, because not acting on it may be something you will really regret later on.

[Its a Plant]

Point well taken IllusionalFate.

TMK - I think your answer all comes down to YOU and YOUR heart. What do you want? Honestly, if I asked myself this way back when, life woulda been a lot simpler.

Funny you made that point, IF, b/c that long-time friend and I were actually hanging out this weekend, and she posed some obviously fake 'hypothetical' question to me about what I would do if a girl that was strictly a friend, for 4 years, gave me some 9-page letter confessing her love for me. Lol, and I thought...'we've been friends for 4 years...and...I guess I don't know if you have feelings for me?...' So I took it as her way of trying to judge MY reaction if she happened to drop a 'real' letter on me. And it never dawned on me that she might still be holding something back even after all this time. I honestly have no idea, and still don't, lol. And never will, apparently.

I dunno, I'm rambling like a baffoon, but I think you've got to go for it, 100%, otherwise, years later, those 'what-if' thought sessions will literally have you up at night wondering why you didn't 'pull the trigger'. You never know until you do, and I think the curiosity alone of what coulda been is reason enough to at least take a stab. Take a step. Anything.

Cheers. ~

[Tiggernutts]

My wife and I have been married for 10 years and we were friends for 2 before we married. In my opinion it makes for a better relationship. We didn't do all that fake stuff you do while you are dating, because we already knew eachother. I didn't know however that from day one she was attracted to me, and I was the one that finally made the move. My advice is to just go for it and see waht happens. Don't look back later on and ponder what if.

[epicsoundz69]

I am in the same situation that TMK is in. I really, really dont want to fuck up the friendship. What are some subtle questions i could ask to find out if I even have a chance before I take the plunge?

[kwik nasty]

let her know how your weiner feels.

[fikusroot]

or you could tell her the way you really feel.

[huh]

How bout if we hit up dat E

indeed, this deffinatly sounds like an E situation. hit up some E together and talk and let loose your feelings :thumbsup:

[Da Boy Genious]

Stop circling the prey and go in for the kill, aim for the throat kid.

[pwnydanzasmokesdank]

i did E with the girl im with for her first time a few weeks ago. i thought she was kinda into me and i really liked her so i just spent the night at her house, gave her a roll, did a bunch of oxycontin and fucked her until the sun came up. we're dating now