Dude I thought my mom would flip if I got caught. Well I smoked 3 jays with my friend and the house reeked and she woke up. She was a litttle mad but not really. Now 4 months later I can openly talk about poty with her and show her my peices. It just takes a good realtionship and trust. But I have 3.1gpa and am always on the honor roll and have a job that im doing very well at so that helps. I am also 16 ill be 17 in February, so we're basically the same age. Don't tell her until you get caught but sooner or later it will happen.