Gay marrige

[Hamlet]

There are two old lesbians who live down the street from me. They've been together thirty-five years through thick and thin. Now one has lupis and it would be infinitely helpful if they could share the same legal privileges married couples have. There should be, at least, some sort of 'Civil Union' arrangement available to them.

But assholes like this closet-case stand in their way.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15536263/

Would gay couples make good parents? Many would-especially in comparison to the crackhouses the children came from. In a way they might even be better suited for helping a kid deal with the fact that they don't live in a "Leave it to Beaver" world.

Then again, there's always the dark side of that arrangement. Licensing all parents would be brilliant if it were possible.

[Bong30]

If you want to be Gay be gay, but when you bring kids in the mix. HELL NO


strangle hey whats up...been a while. I agree with you one hundred percent.

Just because heteros fuck up, doesnt mean its ok for Gays to have kids.

I worked with a lady...that was Great she was a a lesbian, and cool, but then her and her partner, decide to have kids... artificial like.....

Then her and her Partner decide to BREAK up after they have 2 kids....

The older one is a girls, BUT the Younger ne is a BOY. Now his mom is bringing all these WOMEN in the house.....

What chance does that boy have of having a normal life.

to me if god wanted us to be Gay we would be ASEXUAL. But we are not.

if we were all gay we would be gone..............

Gays should not have kids.... you need a Mother and a Father, I voted tht way also.

[Hamlet]

to me if god wanted us to be Gay we would be ASEXUAL. But we are not.

If God didn't want gays you have to ask yourself why he made one in ten of us that way. ...or why he would fill up his priesthood with them.

[MaryJaneScott]

This is how I see it...


stangle!!! You're back!!!! we missed you!!


that is all.

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[az666]

I don't think having a mother and a father is as important now as it was years ago...I can understand in cavemen times....or times when you would be cast out of society for being gay.

What are you going to say when your kid (assuming you have kids) asks you why one of his friends has 2 dads...

haha I might be biased, as I hope to adopt a kid if I get a longterm/perminant boyfriend, or even a surrogate mother....but I guess thats a little bit off topic.

My point is I think gay parents should be allowed to adopt kids...100%

Bong30, i guess the chances of that boy having a normal life depends on how the mother brings him up....there are pleanty of single women who bring up kids....pleanty of single men that do the same. There are pleanty of gay parents who raise normal children....just my thoughts

[jamstigator]

Saw an article the other day that showed that virtually all mammalian species exhibit homosexual behavior in their populations. If there is a God and he/she didn't want mammals to act like that...then they wouldn't. Since it's such widespread and prevalent behavior, across such a range of species, it looks like that's just the way things were intended to be. Incidentally homosexuality and asexuality or not at all the same thing. Some populations (bonobos, for example) use homosex to defuse stressful situations (meeting a new pack, whatever), or just as a form of (very) friendly comaraderie.

What I wonder is, if as a species population increases and reaches the point of overpopulation problems, does the *percentage* of homosexuals in the population increase as well? If so, that'd imply that nature begins selecting for homosexuality as a species survival trait.

Anyway, since it seems to be normal and natural for most any mammalian species to have homosexuals in the population, I can't see persecuting people for it. Like red hair or brown skin or blue eyes or whatever, it's just another trait some people have and some people don't, not a big deal.

[Breukelen advocaat]

There are very few men anymore that exhibit any understanding of what it is to be one. Many people have been brainwashed by feminist pseudohistory, lies, and distortions. Boys cannot learn what masculinity is from a woman, because they have no understanding of the male psyche. The "single mother" is the single worst family idea that we have taken up in this society. Orpanages, such as Boy's Town (now Girls and Boys Town) were, and are, better than the one-parent houshold with a female head. Two gay males would be a better choice for raising a child, especially a boy, than a single mother.

[Bong30]

There are very few men anymore that exhibit any understanding of what it is to be one. Many people have been brainwashed by feminist pseudohistory, lies, and distortions. Boys cannot learn what masculinity is from a woman, because they have no understanding of the male psyche. The "single mother" is the single worst family idea that we have taken up in this society. Orpanages, such as Boy's Town (now Girls and Boys Town) were, and are, better than the one-parent houshold with a female head. Two gay males would be a better choice for raising a child, especially a boy, than a single mother.

I was raised, by a single Mother.....You are 100% right BA

It sucked Bad my MOM did the best she could...

But when I needed to start shaving I had to ask a GUY at her work how to shave my face.......

[Breukelen advocaat]

I was raised, by a single Mother.....You are 100% right BA

It sucked Bad my MOM did the best she could...

But when I needed to start shaving I had to ask a GUY at her work how to shave my face.......

Mothers that are widows are different - they should be given help and other resources in a truly beneficial patriarchial society. The same should be true for widowers with children. When my mother died, I was in my early teens and received no counseling, help, or aid at all.

[Fengzi]

The way I see it is that gays who want to adopt do it because they really want children. Therefore, they they most likely provide a very loving environment for that child. That in itself should make up for any shortcomings having two parents of the same sex would present.

Preventing gays from adopting has much more to do with the national homophobia than it does with protecting the interests of the children. Don't beleive me? Well, take a look at this list of potential parents

-White Supremecists
-Far out cult members.
-Crack addicts
-Convicted felons (murderers, bank robbers, etc)
-Sex offenders
-Welfare moms
-etc.

Nobody seems to have a problem with these people having kids, so why just gays? God forbid Steve and Larry want to adopt, but that creepy guy who hangs around the middle school with a camera can have kid (assuming he finds a woman to legally have sex with). There's a lot more to being good parents then just being Mommy and Daddy.