Dude, I was raised by my mom and grandmother. The absense of a full time father hasn't caused much damage to me. I may not be able to change my oil, but I turned out alright. Two women for me did a fine job. Isn't it better for a child to grow up in a gay home than an orpanage (sp). Come on, there are to many children with no where to go. And two parent, male/female homes aren't alway's healthy enviornments.