i dunno man, if they want to adopt, thats their choice. also, i dont think it can fuck them up, theyd be used to having two dads/moms and find it completely normal. most children are very understanding of this. it doesnt matter if you have a mom and dad or two moms or dads, its the parenting that they do that makes the kid who they are.

also, i guess i joined after you left, so hey man whats up? looking forward to seeing more of you in the future