i think he is trying to play the "feel sorry for me' then i can bang you game. You wouldn't be the first to fall for it hehe just give him some lovin, that will help his self esteem bigtime. who cares what he did in the past as long as he can see a brighter future. oh well thats just my take on it. maybe he really feels sorry for himself and doesnt want to get in your pants. but then again he may just be trying to explore his emotions and get in your pants hmmm hard to tell.