Ugly People

[Tom Swierzbinski]

Past experiences dont matter one bit with me. I only think of someone as 'ugly' if they backstab me, cheat on me or use me. Ill always give them one chance if they do, just incase its a mistake on either of our parts, but after that I dont want to know them anymore.

Example - an, until recently, good friend of mine stayed at my place because he said he had been kicked out for wanting to be a woman. He nicked my booze, fags and weed, and even though I asked him not to, he smoked in my room 90% of the time instead of in the kitchen, where the rest of us smoke. It was only until later in the week that I found out that he had not been kicked out, but his mum had said to him that she doesnt want to see him dressed up as a girl. Fair enough, any parent would be like that because its a major shock. Later on in the week he gave me a bit of bud. I smoked most of it, then saved the rest for the next day. In the morning I open up my stash tin and its mysteriously disappeared. I walk upstairs, and Ben is sitting in my room, bong next to him and my room smelling of weed. I confront him about it and he denied taking it. So I kick him out.
The other day on halloween we met up, and he got pissed. He walked back to mine while I was hanging with another mate, and he asks me if he can have one of my diazepam (which I had to near enough beg to get). I say no, and he carries on asking. In the end I said ask my mum. He comes back an later, saying 'yo Swizz those tablets are fucking awesome!'. Turns out he took one anyway. And he still owes me a tenner. So for that I kept a GTA guide which costs £11 as payment and Ive told him I dont want anything to do with him no more.

Fool me once, shame on you... but you wont get a chance to fool me twice.

Tom Swierzbinski Reviewed by Tom Swierzbinski on 11-04-2006. Ugly People In your opinion, what makes a person ugly? I mean if a person does all kinds of messed up shit..maybe even break the law, but is nice and goes out of the way to help other people...does that make that person bad or ugly? A friend of mine had a messed up childhood and never felt he belonged anywhere. He did a lot drugs and hurt himself (and many people around him has hurt him) more than he deserves to. He has a lot of love in him but it's buried deep within him. He would never hurt anyone Rating: 5

[TheSmokingMonkey]

Well, maybe this is harsh, but I am not into "pity fucks".

I think that if life kicks you down, and you alienate everyone who was there by your angry or depressed behavior, then too damn bad if you don't have a support system left. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and realize that you got yourself into this mess.

I don't have a lot of sympathy or empathy for people that can't realize the implications of their own actions and deal with them. If he is a victim of circumstance, then fine, but things that alienate friends without bringing new friends into the picture are obviously sketchy and not to be coddled.