OK I'm reading a lot of "how to tell if you're gay" advice, when I'm PRETTY sure this guy is PRETTY SURE he's not gay. that's all cliche and shit (I realize the word cliche is cliche in itself). he's just venting because he has an insecure girlfriend who hasn't quite figured out men yet...but she's on the right track... dude just ignore all those gay gay gay comments, and just know that your g/f is alright, although a little judgemental...and if she can't accept that there's something you really want to do, then you might want to rethink your situation, but if it REALLY doesn't matter that much to you, then I see nothing wrong with forgetting about it, because I'm "married" and I know that I have to let go of a lot of shit everyday, and we never go to bed mad at each other. I think that's key to making it work. But just don't give up what you really want to do if it's something you really DO want to do. Aight I've mouthed off enough lemme holla....