The times I have thought people were gay, were.

My old boss at this resturaunt I worked at last year, I knew he was gay from the second I met him. Just imagine a fatter, gayer version of Jack from Will and Grace (TV show). It was obvious, but he was the coolest guy. He'd come out and puff doobs all the time with us after work and at work. He didn't care.

Another co-worker I thought was gay, but then he told me had a wife, and a few kids, so I thought maybe he was just always chipper. A few months later some ugliness happened with someone fidning out he was gay, and some rumours were spread around. He then told me he was gay after explaining the current situation, so it turns out I was right!