hey im 15 and i used to take my dads stash all the time.. my point of view... dont get mad at him, and dont tell the wife. hah but you know tell him you notice it and its ok he does it and youd do it with him tell him though that if you do this and he gets in trouble... outside of you and him doing it means trouble... basically do it with him around you too keep him out of trouble from the cops, or even with your wife...