me and my bros would always lie to my dad about smoking, until he came and blazed up with us once, i guess it showed us that he wasn't really just trying to get us to incriminate ourselves he just really wanted to know the truth... i would reccomend that, but that also sends off the wrong message... sometimes atleast... so i don't know what to tell you... i know if you're to get him to admit to it, he's got to feel comfterable talking about it, and that he won't just be setting himself up for trouble...

hard situation really....

as far as limitations go, i think it's fair enough to say you'll let him get away with it as long as he keeps good grades in school, doesn't do it before school or something (although we both know that its' probably going to happen one way or another) just make sure he knows an education is way more important than sparking up and kicking back... sparking up should be reserved for after you've busted your ass and deserve to get to kick back :thumbsup: