what to do

[MrGuyUK]

I'm just turning 17 and have 3 older brothers

1 doesn't live with me anymore, but my other 2 do. ones 23 and a proper druggy lol, he knows i smoke and let me sit up in his smoking room at my other brother wedding smoking a joint while he had some coke (he says weed bores him now!!!) but my other brother at home is 24 and a full on tit.

a few weeks ago, parents went on holiday for a week, so i approached my old home living brother and told him i was having a party, he instantly called the parents and set a limit of 6 people and no alcohol. he went out the night i had the party, so naturally,, there were about 15 people round 3 crates of beer and bout half an o of weed. we were grindingin and skinning up in my living room so it reaked of weed (not smoking inside) and drinking so it sstank of alcohol.

11pm, the f*cker comes home "upstairs in my room, NOW!" so i naturally shit myself (he's swung at me before) and told a few people to wait outside his room whilst i was in there. he calls me in and say "u were alloewd 6 people....there about 15 n the house stinks of weed and alcohol. get everyone out now" luckily enough someone's house who was jsut 5 mins walk away was empty so we all went up there. but he rung the parents n tol them how many people i had round (and that i looked really drunk wen he was speaking to me, even though i never drink more thn 2 cans so im never ever drunk, just really stoned as only 1 or 2 of my mates smoke weed and we had half an oz lol)

So aprents come home say how let down they are i broke the rules n said they'll think twice about having peolpe round (little do they know, when they went ot south africa for the month, we had about 20 people round, and about 150 beers before any of us smoked weed) nothing ever been broken or damaged form one of my parties (apart from a thermometer i smashed 2 weeks later when i was bringing it back downstairs)

so now my parents are out this weekend from saturday morning until sunday night. There's a local band gig (icarus http://www.myspace.com/icarus05 ) on saturday night, so im going to have a few people back ot mine to crash after but only good mates, so there'll be like 8 of us, maytbe 2 crates and im getting a Q but only me and another person there smoke weed so that should be enough.

Only problem is brother and parents. So ive got a few options here:

1. fuck him, fuck the parents have people round, risk my brother coming home or being in the night laying into me and parents arse raping me. - life at home becomes very arkward after

2. ask my parents if i can have a few people crash after a gig on saturday. if they ask how many, say 10 in the hope they'll say only 8 or something - they mite say no1 is allowed or something.

3. approach brother, tell him what im doing, try bribe him or sweet talk him into letting me have people round. - he might say no and tell the parents

Just a few side points, mine and older brother relationship is a bit dodgy, i think he knows i smoke weed and hints it a lot round the parents (who dont know, they think im an angel) so if i mess aorund with him, he probably would tell them i smoke weed. my youngest brother (the one who's sound) doesn't really mind and would probably join me n mates getting drunk n stoned.

So then people, what should i do?

Thanks in advanced.

MrGuyUK Reviewed by MrGuyUK on 10-30-2006. what to do I'm just turning 17 and have 3 older brothers 1 doesn't live with me anymore, but my other 2 do. ones 23 and a proper druggy lol, he knows i smoke and let me sit up in his smoking room at my other brother wedding smoking a joint while he had some coke (he says weed bores him now!!!) but my other brother at home is 24 and a full on tit. a few weeks ago, parents went on holiday for a week, so i approached my old home living brother and told him i was having a party, he instantly called the Rating: 5

[Pot_Duster]

I am surprised that you don't have anything "on" your bro so that you can blackmail the sob into submission. When I was your age I had my older brother scared that I would rat him out if he ever did anything to screw me up. My older brother and I had an agreement of sorts and didn't compete for our parents attention anyhow.
That bro of yours sounds like he needs to be taken down and soon. Just be smart and patient and remember to gather solid evidence like pics or recordings. When you are ready for the sob, don't say a word just leave a copy of an incriminating photo about where he can find it and then wait. When he asks you about the photo pretend not to be arsed then mention that you have a collection of them and you will try to be more carefull that they aren't left unsecured, then give him a little wink.

[MrGuyUK]

thats the thing, because he's such a tit, i dont associate with him anymore, so i don't really know much. i have loads of shit about his PAST (he used to do ket pills and other stuff) but thats useless, i can't seem to get any dirt on him at the moment. i think i'm going to speak to his girlfriend and get her on my side. she agree's he was a tit for calling the parents.

[Nochowderforyou]

Well forget option #2. If you already got busted by your bro ratting on you, there's a good chance your folks won't allow anymore of your friends over.

I say party somewhere else. It's no fun getting in shit after having fun, so have an outdoor party or go to someone else's house. Doing this again will only result in a grounding or a beating, which is no fun in my opinion.

[napolitana869]

ask your parents. and if they say no- dont have the party. it might not be the answer you want to hear but its the one that will earn back your parents trust so you wont have to worry about going behind their backs next time

[MrGuyUK]

spose. they're off to portugal for a week on a week on saturday lol so maybe if i behave this weekend, ill be able to have people round next weekend