the trick is to make em feel comfortable...it doesnt matter what u look like...i seen ugly dudes with dime peices...once u make em feel comfortable its pretty ez to get in the panties not that im that kinda guy...but...w/e floats ur boat right?....anywayz chicks hate guys that have no confidence, that studder over their words, its a turn off....make em laugh, thats the easiest way, for me at least