I hate this term 'dealers'. Anyone I've ever got it from is my friend, too. Why would you buy from someone you don't know? Obviously they are gonna take advantage of someone they've never met, and/or don't like. Think about from their point of view, the more people who know about them, the worse off they are.

If you can, buy from a female friend...usually want to make people happy rather than profit off unknowing customers.